Having a lot of money is correlated with personality traits that are attractive, because those traits facilitate accumulating money. You are conflating correlat

Having a lot of money is correlated with personality traits that are attractive, because those traits facilitate accumulating money. You are conflating correlation and causation. Lucking into money because you happen to work in tech is not evidence of quality dating material ipso facto. It is not hard to get a date on the west coast on $300k as a tech person, as long as you have more to offer than just that.