There really exists no non-subjective way of telling how "rough" somebody has had it. Which means, you don't really know how rough somebody is having it right

There really exists no non-subjective way of telling how "rough" somebody has had it. Which means, you don't really know how rough somebody is having it right now. Just give them the benefit of the doubt and help them as much as you can. The real problem is when people claim that other people really have it easy, easier than they did. You don't know what people are going through.