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Here is what I do, and advice: Just visit places of your genuine interests. And suit it to your age or don't bother at all. - Join interesting online forums w
by rg111 4y ago
Here is what I do, and advice:
Just visit places of your genuine interests. And suit it to your age or don't bother at all.
- Join interesting online forums with offline presence. Be a regular in those places. It can be a book club, a chess club, a science club, coding club or anything. Be true to your interests and start visiting. Or join a fully offline one in your locality. Actively interact with new people.
- Join a class. A gym class, karate, dance, art, pottery, recreational math- doesn't matter. Join a class and be a regular. Actively interact with new people.
- Join a one-time activity group. Like building a school, Christmas drama group. You get to spend time with new people over weeks regularly.
- If you are religious or can tolerate religion, join a church, or your-religion-equivalent of it. I have seen lifelong friendships develop out of them.
- If you are politically active, or want to do so, work actively for a political party for an election. Actively interact with new people.
- Join an NGO or a charity or actively volunteer your time for a cause that you believe in. Actively interact with new people.
- Catch up with college/school friends with whom you were never that close. People change, and you might find the new-old-acquinstance quite interesting.
You see, friendships need to evolve naturally. You cannot choose or take scrupulously calculated steps.
Just spend time in an interested area, you already have one interest overlap. When you find 2/3, that person starts to look interesting.
Please let nature take its own course. You just increase your probability by mixing out with a lot more newer people.
This is my advice to "how to find a romantic partner" as well.