You should never do anything to make your children resent you. I vividly remember an episode from third grade, when my mother yanked me around by the hair for

You should never do anything to make your children resent you. I vividly remember an episode from third grade, when my mother yanked me around by the hair for not doing my math homework quickly enough. A dose of LSD as an adult helped me to rewind, and see how neural connections grow around that trauma, like a nail in a growing tree trunk, affecting my attitude and behavior for many years.