but I hope you understand that if no one did tolerate the abusive then our psych wards and hospitals would be about half as full, right? That isn't to say that

but I hope you understand that if no one did tolerate the abusive then our psych wards and hospitals would be about half as full, right? That isn't to say that half didn't need help -- it's that humans who need help can be abusive. So.. what do we do with them? Ignoring these people is about the same fate as 'compartmentalizing' them into a wood-chipper -- doomed.