If an adult breaks voluntarily an item on me to cause pain, the instinct is to sue (a form of force), or respond with force (depends extremely on context) or fl

If an adult breaks voluntarily an item on me to cause pain, the instinct is to sue (a form of force), or respond with force (depends extremely on context) or flee. I don't think the situation you describe seems healthy. I have at least 2 memories where I have been spanked really hard from my parents due to being misunderstood. What's the consequence of that? Who is going to punish the parent? In children's view, that's a major punishment for no correct reason, what does it teaches about law?