> getting therapy Good - as long as you mean that "they", the misbehaving part, goes to therapy. (Not, say, you - unless, again, you mean professional consulta

> getting therapy Good - as long as you mean that "they", the misbehaving part, goes to therapy. (Not, say, you - unless, again, you mean professional consultancy mirroring this current question... As long, again, that it is clear to you that it is the badly behaving part that must be retrained.) Otherwise, you would have to develop communicational skills that you state implicitly not having developed until now, to place behavioural boundaries in others. So, the misbehaving part should be straightened by a capable third part.