>there's a pretty small number of people who actually organize things I think this is very true. Back in the day, I was 'the instigator'. I'd phone a couple

>there's a pretty small number of people who actually organize things I think this is very true. Back in the day, I was 'the instigator'. I'd phone a couple of friends, and soon enough, Saturday night would be 'on'. If I didn't do it, it generally didn't happen. They wanted to go out, but never enough to actually organize it. 20 years on, I'm remembering my role and trying to make more things happen, particularly as I'm not on any Social Media, so have dropped off the passive radar of a number of my friends.