> I don't think it's just devs, it seems like a broader "tech culture" or "startup culture" thing, where everyone acting like they're in some weird cult, fully

> I don't think it's just devs, it seems like a broader "tech culture" or "startup culture" thing, where everyone acting like they're in some weird cult, fully devoted to their company is their entire personality. For me, a Big Red Flag in job interviews is when a potential employer says "this place is a family." I already have a family - I don't want to work somewhere where they expect that my entire life will be consumed by my employer because "we're family."