The problem is, you do not like their actions. And that's perfectly fine! However, no matter what they say here, what platitudes, what attempts to comfort(or

The problem is, you do not like their actions. And that's perfectly fine! However, no matter what they say here, what platitudes, what attempts to comfort(or lack!), you will still find fault with the words. Stop complaining about the words, and people will stop arguing with you over them. The words are unimportant. Instead, complain solely about the act, leave the words out of it.