That's a really good point, but not 100% in contradiction with the main point. It certainly is an issue regardless of causal direction when you feel strongly

That's a really good point, but not 100% in contradiction with the main point. It certainly is an issue regardless of causal direction when you feel strongly about something that most "healthy" people aren't that bothered with. I had BPD(90% cured) and one lingering issue I have is called "Subjugation" where I have trouble setting healthy limits and seeing acts of bullying or others subjugating others (real or perceived) still triggers me. I did tell HR I hated bullying, HR took it well, but one could certainly reach the correct conclusion I have a weakness when dealing with them, otherwise I wouldn't be as bothered with it, or list it as number one issue; I mean, it only happened once in the last 15 years.