Another good test is to take that person out to the mountains. (Assuming yourself is fit enough). The weak people will whine and complain about the hardships (

Another good test is to take that person out to the mountains. (Assuming yourself is fit enough). The weak people will whine and complain about the hardships (sores, sweat, tired, hungry, ...) The strong characters will stay through the challenges, will remain attentive to the partner and provide for the mutual security.