> Not everything in life is transactional. Thanks for saying this. Posts and threads like this read like real life is some kind of war zone with tactics and pl

> Not everything in life is transactional. Thanks for saying this. Posts and threads like this read like real life is some kind of war zone with tactics and plans, as opposed to a beautiful dance in which we find ourselves pleasantly surprised with how things can turn out if we keep an open heart. I urge these people to read less Art of War, and more fiction. Go and enjoy life without thinking of how to "win" all the time.