If the math doesn't add up then the math doesn't add up. If it's not possible to save for a house with or without avocado toast then talking about avocado toast

If the math doesn't add up then the math doesn't add up. If it's not possible to save for a house with or without avocado toast then talking about avocado toast is really beside the point, isn't it? No amount of "mindset" is going to get you out of the hole.