> "- "Identify what irritates people the most in others—because this is probably the trait they dislike most in themselves" - maybe ??? this feels like pop psyc

> "- "Identify what irritates people the most in others—because this is probably the trait they dislike most in themselves" - maybe ??? this feels like pop psychology, and I'd love to see real data." The things that irritate me the most are when I see people doing the kinds of things my father did (laissez faire, no support, expect me to be a replica).