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Hard to see how this meshes with published evidence about the role and importance of environmental and lifestyle factors in stress, well-being and burnout. If
by CipherThrowaway 4y ago
Hard to see how this meshes with published evidence about the role and importance of environmental and lifestyle factors in stress, well-being and burnout.
If anything, getting older is strongly moving me away from your mindset. To the extent that well-being is intrinsic it seems to be more about the causal relationship to environmental factors. Some people are better at managing workload, setting boundaries, avoiding stressful situations and finding a "scene" that fits their values and abilities. I've seen these people do very well.
There are plenty of people out there ready to tell you that happiness and well-being are all about attitude. But when I look at the people in my own life who have said this none of them have been particularly happy or seem to have figured things out for themselves. And it's no coincidence that some of the strongest advocates for "individual responsibility for happiness" are bad bosses and abusive spouses who have a vested interest in keeping people in bad environments.
To me, stories like this one read more true to life: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34406760#34409368 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34406760#34409368.