The raw email received almost certainly does have your email in it. Your problem is your client isn't displaying it to you. In fact email has a lot of redunda

The raw email received almost certainly does have your email in it. Your problem is your client isn't displaying it to you. In fact email has a lot of redundant information in it to administrators debug problems, and just about all of it won't be displayed by your typical email client as it would be confusing to most people. Some clients will display the "raw, as received" email if you ask them too. GMail has a "Show Original" menu item for example. In there, you will find "Received: ... for <XXXXXX@gmail.com>". The exact form does vary between systems, but it's almost always there.