Extroverts work hard at what they do. They expend effort to talk to others, learn about them, contribute to interactions, etc. Many just appear at ease, the sa

Extroverts work hard at what they do. They expend effort to talk to others, learn about them, contribute to interactions, etc. Many just appear at ease, the same way a duck appears to glide across water. You too can do this. Learn what they do; don’t try to emulate how you think they feel. With practice, you may feel better when using these skills, but actually using them will come first. The harder question is going to be whether you find this to be worthwhile.