It also raises question of whether the children are full members of society, and if you lose your membership when your kids reach 18/move out/have their own kid

It also raises question of whether the children are full members of society, and if you lose your membership when your kids reach 18/move out/have their own kids. Surely potential breeders should be more deserving of membership than those that are no longer capable? Further, surely rapists are more deserving that abortionees?