I haven’t had too much luck with online dating, especially after I grew my hair out. I feel like a lot of women are looking for don draper, tall, confident, cl

I haven’t had too much luck with online dating, especially after I grew my hair out. I feel like a lot of women are looking for don draper, tall, confident, clean cut, etc- and I’ve always been a weird little artist. I did try cutting my hair short and acting in the most masculine way I could for a while, and it worked, I got a lot more attention. But it feels so bad to pretend to be someone you’re not in order to get people to like you. You always have in the back of your head, if you knew the real me, you wouldn’t like me anymore. I think a lot of women deal with the same kind of pressures, of course. I would rather be alone.