I think your position is basically the same position that most people that advocate for monoliths (which btw is a bit of a strawman created by microservice arch

I think your position is basically the same position that most people that advocate for monoliths (which btw is a bit of a strawman created by microservice architecture advocates in the first place) hold. People are objecting to service/network boundaries as a default domain decomposition tool and arguing that it should be used instead when there are clear and immediate technical advantages to do so.