Not me, but you have no basis for the degree of certainty you are displaying. For me this has become an exit criteria for serious discussions. Once you are ove

Not me, but you have no basis for the degree of certainty you are displaying. For me this has become an exit criteria for serious discussions. Once you are overcertain i realistically no longer argue the actual issue but against you not wanting to have been wrong. As i see it, given my social competence, best case would be making you over correct in the other direction or make you cry. Both bad outcomes. I would recommend getting to grips with the varying degrees of uncertainty of a complex world. I get that this feels bad, but simply betting on the frames that make you feel less bad, even just because it confirms your view, is not a winning strategy.