Oprah said it best. If you give money, the other side will always resent you when you try to get it back. They'll think "I'm struggling to pay this, and this p

Oprah said it best. If you give money, the other side will always resent you when you try to get it back. They'll think "I'm struggling to pay this, and this person had it" however irrational that may seem. If you care enough to give, just give. If you don't, don't.