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The financial disconnect in tech versus the rest of society is crazy. Casually handing out $7k is a wild statement for most of the world.
by notyourwork 4y ago
The financial disconnect in tech versus the rest of society is crazy. Casually handing out $7k is a wild statement for most of the world.
- whatshisface 4y agoBut that's irrelevant, it was not a big loan for the OP.
- falcolas 4y agoIt was for the recipient. And the recipient is the one who'll be feeling the pinch (stress, anger, etc) of paying it back. $7,000 / 24 = $300 (roughly an extra car payment)
- whatshisface 4y agoI am sure it is very nice of you that you protect your friends from making the stressful and angering mistake of becoming indebted to you, but the OP is expressing an attitude towards money that makes it sound like it is less of a mistake to be indebted to them.
- falcolas 4y agoSo, the context of this specific thread of discussion is "If $7k destroys a friendship, it's not really that close of a friendship." Which is bogus in my opinion - this is all discussion on why it's bogus. It's not a comment on the original post by alach11.
- gowld 4y agoThat's why the recipient should think carefully about how valuable the purchase is.
- notyourwork 4y agoRelationship dynamics change when money gets involved. Especially when its a lot of money for at least one party.