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It's an efficient and polite way of determining if your "loan" actually helps them, or they are going to be a bottomless pit of misery and $ requests. If the lo
by Consultant32452 4y ago
It's an efficient and polite way of determining if your "loan" actually helps them, or they are going to be a bottomless pit of misery and $ requests. If the loan helps them, they will be able to pay it back and all will be well. If it doesn't help them, then there's likely no value in giving them more money.
If you want be charitable, there's certainly more efficient ways than giving free money to random people who ask you.
- roflyear 4y agoIt's super inefficient, and it's absolutely not polite.
- Consultant32452 4y agoYou loan someone money not expecting them to pay it back, you never bring it up or bother them, they decide to leave your life forever. You are the bad guy. Only on the internet.
- roflyear 4y agoNo... if you have some messed up system that involved that process to filter people from your life, you're the bad guy, yeah. Not just on the internet, either.
- Consultant32452 4y agoIt's not a "system" that anyone designed. It's an emergent property of helping people who ask for it.