Look through the questions. A lot of them are things that will already come up in the course of a relationship. The difference is that you're asking them upfron

Look through the questions. A lot of them are things that will already come up in the course of a relationship. The difference is that you're asking them upfront. There's nothing particularly special about them. The core point is just opening up and being vulnerable with the other person far earlier than you otherwise might and based on personal experience, I think it can work extremely well. I'm neurotic, so the relationships didn't end up going anywhere, but still.