I kinda regret putting "transphobic" in my own comment tbh- it may have been better to just say at "toxic personality". My intention when raising that fact was

I kinda regret putting "transphobic" in my own comment tbh- it may have been better to just say at "toxic personality". My intention when raising that fact was just to add color to the thread, not really to start a flame war, but I guess I should have expected this :)