Without telling you to pirate: What you're describing is Sonarr / Radarr with Plex / Jellyfin. The former lets you put in a list of shows / movies you want it

Without telling you to pirate: What you're describing is Sonarr / Radarr with Plex / Jellyfin. The former lets you put in a list of shows / movies you want it to download, and it'll check against public and private trackers periodically until it finds what you're after. The media you want doesn't even have to be released - an IMDB or TVDB link is enough. The latter makes it easy to stream anywhere, download ahead of flights, and tracks watched status. Plex especially is fantastically easy for family to use. Setup is "easy" in that it's an afternoon or less for the kind of people browsing HN, and using it is actually easy for anyone else you care to share the service with. Combined, it checks all your requirements of pulling in reviews from you and others, watched status tracking, and owned by you.