If you want to be an asshole, be an asshole. Just don't complain when others treat you as an asshole. We all have thoughts we choose not to express. The abilit

If you want to be an asshole, be an asshole. Just don't complain when others treat you as an asshole. We all have thoughts we choose not to express. The ability to choose whether to express a thought is arguably the most human of human traits. You are not special for having unspoken thoughts. Nobody gets the freedom of speech without also taking its complement: the privilege of bearing the consequences (positive and negative) of choosing whether to speak.