Ultimately feminism or not isn't the point to me. You can't get two people in a room agreeing what feminism is and isn't anymore. No true scotsman etc. So I've

Ultimately feminism or not isn't the point to me. You can't get two people in a room agreeing what feminism is and isn't anymore. No true scotsman etc. So I've given up arguing isms. Whatever it is, we can all agree that society is in flux. Old rules are being thrown away, new and unproven rules are being written. There will victories, losses, and speed bumps along the way. I'm not qualified to judge the goodness or badness of what's happening overall. I have my doubts, but they're mainly just for me as they reflect my personal experience and biases. Society will go on without me (and my generation) regardless of my views. In the end this is civilizations burden, not mine. Still it's good to see stuff like this at least discussed. There was a time you got shot down for merely mentioning that many men have it hard as well.