So what do we do with people who simple refuse to pretend that transwomen are women? Is that even a bigoted position in your mind? We still need to make sure t

So what do we do with people who simple refuse to pretend that transwomen are women? Is that even a bigoted position in your mind? We still need to make sure transwomen get prostate exams, but we would never instruct women to do so. We still need to check women for ovarian cancer, but we would never instruct transwomen to do so. Yet when someone has a position as reasonable as "you do you, but no I am not going to call a transwoman a real woman" - isn't it in fact intolerant to try and shut that person down by calling them a bigot or a TERF or whatever?