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Simple example: Alice: “I need you to do X.” Bob: “OK, I’ll do X.” Not much negotiating, but Bob has aligned to Alice’s request. More subtle: Carla: “Do you
by el_jay 4y ago
Simple example:
Alice: “I need you to do X.”
Bob: “OK, I’ll do X.”
Not much negotiating, but Bob has aligned to Alice’s request.
More subtle:
Carla: “Do you think we should do X or Y?”
Danny: “I’m leaning X but Y might have the following benefits…”
Carla: “I’m leaning Y for those exact reasons. Why do you think X?”
And so on, until alignment is reached. Hope this helps!
- skrebbel 4y agoWait, so the argument is that nerds do not use conversation for stuff like this? I really only get more confused tbh.