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I'm 5'6, my wife is 5'8, and the first girl I ever went out on a date with was 5'10. I won't say "It's all in your head", because it's not. Attractiveness is

I'm 5'6, my wife is 5'8, and the first girl I ever went out on a date with was 5'10. I won't say "It's all in your head", because it's not. Attractiveness is a real and very objective thing we can measure. But "how much it bothers you", or "how much it gets in your head" is also a very real and objective thing, too. Of course, no man/woman is going to want you if you yourself even go "Oh woe is me I'm so short and awful". Most of my friends who are alone and blame it on their height are like this.

bradlys 4y ago
Height is just one metric. You might have a stellar face - which is actually the most important metric in todays dating market. But having a great face and being short, bald, and obese isn’t going to lead you to winning results either. The standards are high and some people will always be alone due to looks - please stop using the just world fallacy.