I'm completely up front about having a family or my age, because if that's a problem, I'd prefer to know it before starting there. If it is a problem for them,

I'm completely up front about having a family or my age, because if that's a problem, I'd prefer to know it before starting there. If it is a problem for them, I would probably let them know what they've asked is illegal. I would probably also let any recruiter who brought me in know as well.