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> Ever get sucked into a serious/argument type discussion in texts with an angry gf? you'll never get a change to explain yourself. I learned over time that if
by sammalloy 4y ago
> Ever get sucked into a serious/argument type discussion in texts with an angry gf? you'll never get a change to explain yourself.
I learned over time that if you are ever in a relationship where you are put on the defensive and need to explain yourself, that’s probably a relationship that you shouldn’t be in.
- borski 4y ago100%. Took me a very long time to learn this, but if your partner does not assume good intent, by default, and give you a chance to explain yourself (and vice versa), you’re in an abusive relationship and should get out. I’ve been in it, and it was awful and destroyed me for many years, and I couldn’t be happier to have found someone who treats me with respect now.