No lol, ahahahahah. He was saying 60+ hrs right? That means I have 52 hours free, and he wanted me to be there in person too right? So that's another 4-6 hours

No lol, ahahahahah. He was saying 60+ hrs right? That means I have 52 hours free, and he wanted me to be there in person too right? So that's another 4-6 hours commuting. Then even being incredibly efficient it usually takes me about 2 hrs/day to do life upkeep stuff, so that's 14 hrs there, so that's 32 free hours/wk? All split up into small chunks too. That's really approaching "effectively zero time to do things that are important to me". You only have one life to live and while money enables some things, free time is much more precious. It's really hard to see a justification for giving up that much capacity for self determination.