Exactly, I dont get it why some folks are clearly in the job for short stints over and over, and clearly dont have stability in mind, yet they want this stable

Exactly, I dont get it why some folks are clearly in the job for short stints over and over, and clearly dont have stability in mind, yet they want this stable position and frown upon rejection as clearly a bad match. I'd say this is an epitome of bad match, since people with too little/incorrect experience are normally filtered out by agencies, but this is more personality mismatch. Some things are just damn too easy to spot without even trying, and this one of them. Have a great story to explain why you are actually wont leave when meeting first frustrating item at your work. Also, everything is being evaluated, including how you react to uncomfortable questions. Parents snarky response would be a nogo on itself, regardless of subject.