I have that same general perspective working with the kids. Don't ask questions where you both know the correct answer is the bad answer. Examples, "Who did t

I have that same general perspective working with the kids. Don't ask questions where you both know the correct answer is the bad answer. Examples, "Who did this?" "Why haven't you done your homework yet?" "Have you started your homework?" Much better to do the invitation style questions. "Who is going to help me clean this up?" "What is left to your homework?", etc. With the obvious major caveat of things being very tailored to the specific kid and situation, of course.