I'm wondering how true this is in the United States if you don't restrict yourself to big cities when considering parenting behavior. I grew up in a mid-sized

I'm wondering how true this is in the United States if you don't restrict yourself to big cities when considering parenting behavior. I grew up in a mid-sized midwestern city (millennial) and we were definitely very free to do whatever we wanted (within reason) as kids, and we were actually expected to come home every change we got from college. Might be the right balance (assuming that kids have to go to college, which isn't true).