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Sure, I can't be absolutist. But whenever I can, I do something. Respond. For the car, you might not be able to reach, but emit something that convey concern an
by agumonkey 4y ago
Sure, I can't be absolutist. But whenever I can, I do something. Respond. For the car, you might not be able to reach, but emit something that convey concern and care.
- epolanski 4y agoWhat if that approach of over protecting brings up a future lazy, spoiled, weak willed adult that will conduct miserable lives because up to 36 months all their brain saw is that crying always got them attentions and everything they wanted? You don't know whether your approach is the best one, I don't, speak with as many professionals you can.
- metabagel 4y agoChildren under the age of three aren't capable of self-soothing. If they're quiet when you abandon them, it's because they've given up hope.
- epolanski 4y agoYou don't know that, you're not inside their brain nor you're a scientist studying the matter. There is no evidence behind your claim.
- agumonkey 4y agoI approach it the other way. I wouldn't succumb to every tantrum. I try to build a solid emotional bridge so that the kid can stay grounded and relaxed as much as possible. I'd love to speak with interesting professionals. So far I've met none.
- jnwatson 4y agoYou’ve successfully expressed the “parent in whatever mechanism makes me emotionally fulfilled” style. Many others take a more scientific viewpoint more oriented around child outcomes.