> everyone who isn't them needs to butt. out. Exceptions: • if somebody asks for advice. • if somebody mentions they're about to try an arsenic-, lead- and p

> everyone who isn't them needs to butt. out. Exceptions: • if somebody asks for advice. • if somebody mentions they're about to try an arsenic-, lead- and powdered asbestos-based nasal spray on their kid. The capacity of the parents is also a bottleneck: time spent paying attention to your uninformed advice is time spent not paying attention to the child(ren). Unsolicited advice is not relaxing, and doesn't help put food on the table; it probably doesn't help. Though, I think posting on an internet forum might fall into the "if they're asking for advice"; most people visiting such websites are there because they've looked something up, and they expect to be wading through anecdotes.