> as it works well for the family I understand the argument to be that it doesn't work well for the baby. That they experience a form of abandonment because t

> as it works well for the family I understand the argument to be that it doesn't work well for the baby. That they experience a form of abandonment because their brains are wired to equate abandonment with the absence of close contact. They're very dependent on the proximity of a caregiver.