It's just what it is, the society that we live in shapes even the adult us - so you better be very careful where you raise your children. (As young adults they

It's just what it is, the society that we live in shapes even the adult us - so you better be very careful where you raise your children. (As young adults they will be always able to find themselves and pick a different path, but it's better if they don't start with an handicap in that society.) And yeah, it can be hard to strike the right balance - do these family members spend some effort to teach Romanian to their kids ?