Not the parent but the answer is don't use the date picker at all for date of birth. The gov.uk site, which is generally held up as an example of best practice

Not the parent but the answer is don't use the date picker at all for date of birth. The gov.uk site, which is generally held up as an example of best practice design and accessibility because they do over the shoulder testing on real devices with real users from different backgrounds advises to just use three text field with the number property. https://designnotes.blog.gov.uk/2013/12/05/asking-for-a-date-of-birth/ https://designnotes.blog.gov.uk/2013/12/05/asking-for-a-date...