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""" When does "no" really mean no?""" When the words "date rape, police, lawyer" are mentioned in a non casual manner. Seriously, now, this is a really bizarr
by dextorious 15y ago
""" When does "no" really mean no?"""
When the words "date rape, police, lawyer" are mentioned in a non casual manner.
Seriously, now, this is a really bizarre question.
People change their minds, especially in non-important areas of their lives, like purchase decisions.
If someone tells you "I'll never move in a third world country" that is more likely to remain a no than "I'll never buy a Honda".
In regards to purchases decisions, "no" means no for as long as:
1) the market does not change (i.e no new products introduced)
2) the peers/marketing influence on the person doesn't change
3) the attitude/lifestyle of the person doesn't change
4) the needs of the person doesn't change (including "perceived" needs)
i.e very rarely.
Someone could say "I'll never buy an X, my K rocks", and then:
1) Have a chance to use an X and conclude it's actually better.
2) X could actually get more popular so he feels peer-pressured to get one.
3) He is not as opinionated about X's maker anymore (or companies in general), because he's no longer 15.
4) The X version 3 is way better than both K and X version 1.
5) Things that thought mattered about K (like spec Y), he found out they don't really matter to him in actual use.
X could be an iPod and K a Creative Zen, for example.
Or X could be an Android phone, and K an iPhone.
Or vice-versa, but the main point is, in this context, no means almost nothing at all.