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>Saves my time and I don't see how it hurts anyone. Its a lie? People are looking for the equivalent of a mechanical turk in terms of putting effort into makin

by lovich 4y ago

>Saves my time and I don't see how it hurts anyone. Its a lie? People are looking for the equivalent of a mechanical turk in terms of putting effort into making the upfront connection instead of just being one of the numberless connections you could try and make in a night with low up front effort. If they find out after you get some sort of relationship going that you outsourced your initial contact to a computer program, I would be surprised if it was taken well.

citboin 4y ago
I’ve considered outsourcing all of my online dating to humans that handle that professionally. The point is to get to the first REAL date and skip the B.S.
- lovich 4y ago
  That’s a thought you could have, most people will generally find you an inhuman asshole for enacting it. The point for relationships for most people is to make a human connection, not speed run to an arbitrary gate and count all the steps to that gate as “B.S.”
  - austhrow743 4y ago
    Meeting in person isn’t arbitrary. It’s when you can start making that human connection.
  - janalsncm 4y ago
    You also have to keep in mind that very little of online dating was real in the first place. You’re using pictures taken who knows when, in ideal situations, photoshopped to hell. Texting a person is not at all the same as talking to them, people can and already do use other resources (friends, the internet) to make themselves seem more interesting online. It’s a game. I’m in the get to the real date as quickly as possible camp as well. Tinder might not like it, though, because they want you to swipe as much as possible. But we should understand that Tinder’s interests are not aligned with those of its users.
kordlessagain 4y ago
If the query is good, that’s not a lie.
janalsncm 4y ago
Tinder already provides canned ice breakers. I wouldn’t be surprised if they started using ChatGPT to write better ones.
isitmadeofglass 4y ago
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by lovich 4y ago

citboin 4y ago

I’ve considered outsourcing all of my online dating to humans that handle that professionally. The point is to get to the first REAL date and skip the B.S.

lovich 4y ago
That’s a thought you could have, most people will generally find you an inhuman asshole for enacting it. The point for relationships for most people is to make a human connection, not speed run to an arbitrary gate and count all the steps to that gate as “B.S.”
- austhrow743 4y ago
  Meeting in person isn’t arbitrary. It’s when you can start making that human connection.
- janalsncm 4y ago
  You also have to keep in mind that very little of online dating was real in the first place. You’re using pictures taken who knows when, in ideal situations, photoshopped to hell. Texting a person is not at all the same as talking to them, people can and already do use other resources (friends, the internet) to make themselves seem more interesting online. It’s a game. I’m in the get to the real date as quickly as possible camp as well. Tinder might not like it, though, because they want you to swipe as much as possible. But we should understand that Tinder’s interests are not aligned with those of its users.

kordlessagain 4y ago

If the query is good, that’s not a lie.

janalsncm 4y ago

Tinder already provides canned ice breakers. I wouldn’t be surprised if they started using ChatGPT to write better ones.

isitmadeofglass 4y ago

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