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And what does one do when you meet in person and no longer have the witty AI to carry your conversation?

blacksmith_tb 4y ago
"Hey, sorry, I'm really tired today..." though of course it's a sad comment on your wit that someone would be more interested in talking to ChatGPT in messages than to you in person (they could save on the drinks / dinner and just self-serve for free).
nullish_signal 4y ago
To be honest, I think Stable Diffusion and chatGPT have improved my language skill somewhat. Especially SD text2img, where even synonyms and punctuation have certain influence on the outputs. Maybe they'll also be a bit better at speaking naturally and un-reservedly? It does seems obvious that a few would stumble, with their Calculator taken away...
- shyn3 4y ago
  Is had a coworker remark they can read at almost twice the speed after gpt3. They used to be at 20 wpm now 55.
yieldcrv 4y ago
there are other stimuli inputs you can leverage in person that can excite and bind oxytocin
Mystery-Machine 4y ago
You...talk. Do you think that none of the people using ChatGPT to get dates knows how to speak? I'm a long time tinder user. I've many girls. The most exhausting part is trying to be funny to catch the girl's attention in the first few messages. Why do I have to do that anyway fake part of the entertainment for the ladies? I'd let a bot do it and I'll entertain them when we meet in person. Saves my time and I don't see how it hurts anyone.
- lovich 4y ago
  >Saves my time and I don't see how it hurts anyone. Its a lie? People are looking for the equivalent of a mechanical turk in terms of putting effort into making the upfront connection instead of just being one of the numberless connections you could try and make in a night with low up front effort. If they find out after you get some sort of relationship going that you outsourced your initial contact to a computer program, I would be surprised if it was taken well.
  - citboin 4y ago
    I’ve considered outsourcing all of my online dating to humans that handle that professionally. The point is to get to the first REAL date and skip the B.S.
    - lovich 4y ago
      That’s a thought you could have, most people will generally find you an inhuman asshole for enacting it. The point for relationships for most people is to make a human connection, not speed run to an arbitrary gate and count all the steps to that gate as “B.S.”
      - austhrow743 4y ago
        Meeting in person isn’t arbitrary. It’s when you can start making that human connection.
      - janalsncm 4y ago
        You also have to keep in mind that very little of online dating was real in the first place. You’re using pictures taken who knows when, in ideal situations, photoshopped to hell. Texting a person is not at all the same as talking to them, people can and already do use other resources (friends, the internet) to make themselves seem more interesting online. It’s a game. I’m in the get to the real date as quickly as possible camp as well. Tinder might not like it, though, because they want you to swipe as much as possible. But we should understand that Tinder’s interests are not aligned with those of its users.

"Hey, sorry, I'm really tired today..." though of course it's a sad comment on your wit that someone would be more interested in talking to ChatGPT in messages than to you in person (they could save on the drinks / dinner and just self-serve for free).

nullish_signal 4y ago

To be honest, I think Stable Diffusion and chatGPT have improved my language skill somewhat. Especially SD text2img, where even synonyms and punctuation have certain influence on the outputs. Maybe they'll also be a bit better at speaking naturally and un-reservedly? It does seems obvious that a few would stumble, with their Calculator taken away...

shyn3 4y ago
Is had a coworker remark they can read at almost twice the speed after gpt3. They used to be at 20 wpm now 55.

yieldcrv 4y ago

there are other stimuli inputs you can leverage in person that can excite and bind oxytocin

Mystery-Machine 4y ago

You...talk. Do you think that none of the people using ChatGPT to get dates knows how to speak? I'm a long time tinder user. I've many girls. The most exhausting part is trying to be funny to catch the girl's attention in the first few messages. Why do I have to do that anyway fake part of the entertainment for the ladies? I'd let a bot do it and I'll entertain them when we meet in person. Saves my time and I don't see how it hurts anyone.

lovich 4y ago
>Saves my time and I don't see how it hurts anyone. Its a lie? People are looking for the equivalent of a mechanical turk in terms of putting effort into making the upfront connection instead of just being one of the numberless connections you could try and make in a night with low up front effort. If they find out after you get some sort of relationship going that you outsourced your initial contact to a computer program, I would be surprised if it was taken well.
- citboin 4y ago
  I’ve considered outsourcing all of my online dating to humans that handle that professionally. The point is to get to the first REAL date and skip the B.S.
  - lovich 4y ago
    That’s a thought you could have, most people will generally find you an inhuman asshole for enacting it. The point for relationships for most people is to make a human connection, not speed run to an arbitrary gate and count all the steps to that gate as “B.S.”
    - austhrow743 4y ago
      Meeting in person isn’t arbitrary. It’s when you can start making that human connection.
    - janalsncm 4y ago
      You also have to keep in mind that very little of online dating was real in the first place. You’re using pictures taken who knows when, in ideal situations, photoshopped to hell. Texting a person is not at all the same as talking to them, people can and already do use other resources (friends, the internet) to make themselves seem more interesting online. It’s a game. I’m in the get to the real date as quickly as possible camp as well. Tinder might not like it, though, because they want you to swipe as much as possible. But we should understand that Tinder’s interests are not aligned with those of its users.