I don't know if I should do that gmail thing or not...afraid it'll mess up or I'll forget about it. Can the spouse resist opening an envelope? I don't know. Ma

I don't know if I should do that gmail thing or not...afraid it'll mess up or I'll forget about it. Can the spouse resist opening an envelope? I don't know. Maybe I just hide it in our files and hope she finds it if I die, but not before.