First, I was just explaining what I thought the author meant. I guess you are making a parallel point. Second, I haven't met many people who are "happy long te

First, I was just explaining what I thought the author meant. I guess you are making a parallel point. Second, I haven't met many people who are "happy long term" who don't have children front and center in their lives. Have you? What is the thing that is giving your life meaning that during your days and on your death bed you will feel great about?