> everyone understands why care givers _tend_ to be women and race car drivers _tend_ to be men. I’d actually like you to explain this beyond a loose and impli

> everyone understands why care givers _tend_ to be women and race car drivers _tend_ to be men. I’d actually like you to explain this beyond a loose and implicit “everyone understands why”. The old saying goes, to assume makes an ass out of U and Me (grammatically incorrect but you get the gist), and I’d hate to assume the “why” of the matter is shared between everyone.